Bills Aim To Bar Adoption By Gays
Cox News Service, February 13, 1999
By Scott S. Greenberger
AUSTIN, Texas – When Roberto’s two mothers pack up for a
family outing, one of them lets the 3-year-old hold her purse to reassure him that he
won’t be left behind. Two fathers take 8-year-old Frank, who as a toddler witnessed
and may have experienced physical and sexual abuse, to visit his biological brother.
Child Protective Services, the state agency that takes custody of abused or neglected
children, took both Roberto and Frank from dangerous homes and gave them their new,
nontraditional families: Roberto’s foster mother is a lesbian and is raising the boy
(whose name has been changed for this story) and his 15-month-old brother with her
partner. Frank’s gay adoptive father also shares parenting duties with a companion.
Two Texas lawmakers have proposed an end to such arrangements. Rep. Warren Chisum
(R-Pampa) and Rep. Robert Talton (R-Pasadena) have filed separate bills that would bar CPS
from designating gays or lesbians as foster parents. Chisum’s legislation also would
ban gays or lesbians from adopting children in CPS custody.
Talton and Chisum say that children are harmed by living in homes with gays or
lesbians.
"When they make 18, they can make a choice on whether they want to approve of that
type of lifestyle or not," Talton said. "I don’t think we ought to be
teaching them that it’s OK at that young age.
"I don’t understand today why they’re allowing people to be foster
parents when they’re openly breaking the law," he added, referring to the
state’s anti-sodomy laws.
Under both bills, CPS would have to remove a child from a foster home if it uncovered
homosexual activity. Roberto’s foster mother, who didn’t want her name used
because her adoption case is still pending, said she is horrified at that prospect. She
noted that the boy has already lived in two foster homes and two shelters since he was
taken from his biological parents.
"We always tell him, ‘You’re going to be here for Christmas, you’re
going to be here for your birthday,’" she said. "He used to say to us,
‘Don’t lose me.’"
Opponents of the bills note that children in CPS custody – many of whom have
physical, mental or emotional problems – wait an average of more than three years to
be placed in homes and that excluding gays and lesbians would only exacerbate a shortage
of foster families. They point out that CPS already favors conventional mother-father
families when it chooses foster homes.
"When we went to CPS, they told us right up front that we’d get the children
that nobody else wanted," said Frank’s adoptive father, Scott, who didn’t
want his last name used, fearing for his child’s well-being.
The agency has no rule prohibiting placements with gays and lesbians. Nor does it keep
statistics on how many homosexual foster and adoptive parents there are in Texas, though
caseworkers may have that knowledge when they place children. A 1998 survey showed that
CPS had placed 70 percent of children in homes headed by married couples.
Last year, a CPS worker in Dallas was demoted after removing a baby boy from the home
of a lesbian couple. The worker, Rebecca Bledsoe, said she felt compelled to remove the
child because homosexual conduct is a misdemeanor in Texas, and she’s filed suit
against the agency. CPS officials said they demoted her because she violated agency rules
in abruptly removing the child from the home.
Gov. George W. Bush, who said he hasn’t seen the proposed legislation, stated this
week that "our agencies ought to work hard to make sure that adoptions and foster
children are placed in traditional homes – man and wife." He declined to comment
on whether gays and lesbians should be banned from adopting children or being foster
parents, or whether children should be removed from households headed by homosexuals.
Gay and lesbian activists are planning to send homosexual parents to visit legislators
– including Chisum and Talton – to put a human face on the debate.
"They need to see the faces of the people they’re hurting," said Dianne
Hardy-Garcia of the Austin-based Lesbian and Gay Rights Lobby of Texas, which is
organizing statewide opposition.
There are subtle, but significant, differences between the Chisum and Talton bills.
Chisum wants CPS to investigate whether "homosexual conduct is occurring or is
likely to occur" in a potential foster or adoptive home. The wording suggests that
even if the foster or adoptive parents aren’t homosexual, they could be disqualified
by the presence of a gay or lesbian person in the household.
Under Talton’s bill, CPS would try to find out whether potential or current foster
parents are homosexual or bisexual. Homosexuals and bisexuals applying to be foster
parents would be disqualified, and the agency would take children away from homosexuals
and bisexuals currently serving as foster parents for CPS kids.
Chisum and Talton say their bills wouldn’t apply when deceased biological parents
have specified in their wills that a child should be turned over to a gay relative. But
opponents – and some legal experts – contend that vague legislative language
might prompt some judges to block such adoptions.
CPS contracts with some private adoption agencies to find homes for children in state
custody, and the bills would bar private agencies from placing those kids with gays or
lesbians. Otherwise, the legislation wouldn’t affect private adoption agencies, which
have their own policies on placing children in homes.
Chisum denies that there is a shortage of foster and adoptive homes.
"Clearly, the record is there are a lot of people out there looking for
children," he said. "People in my area go to Bosnia and Russia to adopt children
at great expense to themselves."
Chisum argues that his bill, which is similar to laws passed in Utah and New Hampshire,
is designed to protect children. He points to a report in the May 1996 issue of the
Journal of the American Medical Association which found that gays and lesbians are more
likely to be drug abusers than heterosexuals are.
"They have more incidences of sexually transmitted diseases, more instances of
having multiple partners. It’s just a more violent atmosphere we’re placing
these children in – predictably more violent than a regular heterosexual family
situation," he said of gay and lesbian homes.
Some research suggests otherwise. Studies are relatively scarce, according to a 1995
American Psychological Association survey, but they have found that children raised by
gays and lesbians aren’t more likely to be homosexual or "to be disadvantaged in
any significant respect relative to the children of heterosexual parents."
And while it’s true that there is no shortage of people wanting to adopt healthy
Anglo babies, few of the roughly 2,000 CPS children awaiting adoption fit that
description.
CPS couldn’t provide statistics on the children awaiting adoption, but less than
30 percent of the children that CPS placed in adoptive homes in 1997 were Anglo. About 11
percent had physical, mental or emotional problems, and roughly 42 percent were older than
5. More than 11 percent of CPS children reach the age of 18 without being adopted.
"If you have a problem with this, then you become a foster parent and you take
these kids home," said Roberto’s foster mother.
"Our goals are the same as any other family: to raise healthy, happy children with
good moral values and who are good people," she said.
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